Cons of dating a pothead
He did one time, when I was in my home state on vacation and forgot my checkbook and had no way to get in touch with my landlords. This morning he told me he had had a dream that we got married. I feel bad about wanting to leave, and I don’t want to hurt him.He does not ever do dishes, although he does take out the trash now. I had one of those moments like in the movies, when the camera zooms in on someone’s face because something bad happens. It’s not THAT bad, but I’m definitely not my best self (which, when I am, I am AWESOME) when I’m with him. But I can’t talk to him about this because once, during a fight, he said “You’re just like all the others, you think I’m a loser.” We don’t fight very often – at all really – because I’ve learned to just keep my mouth shut for fear of putting him on the defensive, which is very unpleasant and easy to do. I guess what I’m asking, is “Is this enough to leave? You can read about me here, peruse the archives here and read popular posts here.We didn’t much discuss the moving-in — it sort of happened because his lease was up.You’re so ashamed of the guy, you can’t even fathom the idea of introducing him to your brainy dad. And you want to know if that’s enough to dump him?! You don’t seriously think a guy hitting you is sole justification for kicking him out, do you? They know that they feel lazy and unmotivated, but that is often just the tip of the iceberg.
You’ll need to remind yourself of those reasons when the going gets tough.
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